Parenting Job 1 - Controlling Obnoxious Behavior,
and the first step in getting your family back on track, is controlling your children's obnoxious behavior, or stop behavior. Stop behavior includes frequent minor everyday issues, such as whining, disrespect, tantrums, arguing, teasing, fighting, pouting, yelling, and so on. Stop behavior - in and of itself - ranges from mildly irritating to pretty obnoxious. Each of these difficult behaviors may not be so bad on its own, but add them all up in one afternoon and by 5:00 p.m. you may feel like hitchhiking to South America.
For stop behavior, such as whining, arguing, screaming, and teasing, use the 1-2-3, or "counting" procedure. Counting is simple, gentle, and direct.
Strategies for Controlling Obnoxious Behavior
For Stop behavior, such as :
Whining
Teasing
Arguing
Pouting
Yelling
Tantrums
Use the 1-2-3 or "counting" procedure.
Parenting Job 2 - Encouraging Positive Behavior
The second parenting job is to encourage your's children positive behavior, or start behavior includes positive activities like cleaning rooms, doing homework, practicing the piano, getting up and out in the morning, going to bed, eating supper and being nice to other people.
You have a start behavior problem when when your child is not doing something that would be a good thing to do.
For start behavior problems, you will have a choice of seven tactics. Which can be used either one at a time or in combination. These tactics are praise, simple requests, kitchen timer, the docking system, natural consequences, charting and the counting variation. Start behavior strategies, as you can probably guess, require a little more thought and effort than counting does.
Strategies for Encouraging Good Behavior
For start behavior, such us :
Picking up
Eating
Homework
Bedtime
Up and out in the morning
Use praise, simple requests, kitchen timer, the docking system, natural consequences, charting and the counting variation.
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